First Signs That You Are Waking Up From The Dream
Are you longing for a better future than what your current life is presenting right now? A better relationship, more money, a meaningful job, excellent health, an open Heart? This is not a coincidence or a mistake. It means you are in tune and waking up to a new Energy expressing itself on earth and that the Divine has a better plan for you.
As we are slowly stepping out of the paradigm where we’ve mostly been living as victims of our circumstances and conditioned beliefs, it’s no wonder that we are ready for something better. It’s hard to feel content anymore as we are watching the world collapse all around us. Collectively we long for something more loving, more just and more in resonance with our Hearts, yet don’t know how to make that happen.
This longing you feel does not mean you are too demanding or should be more grateful for what you have. No! It simply means that you are waking up inside and realizing there is more to life.
There is actually a term called Divine discontent, which is what drives us out of our current circumstances into the next evolutionary phase of life. Without it, life would be stagnant. If this sounds surprising to you, I’m glad to be the bringer of good news. And glad that I’m not the only one.
Elizabeth Cady Stanton, author of ‘The Woman’s Bible’ and co-founder with Susan B. Anthony of the first women’s rights convention in 1848, quotes: “Women’s discontent increases in exact proportion to her development.”
Pretty cool? If you feel discontent with your circumstances, be assured, the Divine is nudging you to evolve and expand. And if you don’t respond to this nudge, the next attempt may feel more pushy. It’s simply Love beginning to break the mold in all the areas where its expression is restrained. Breaking out of old patterns and habits can be scary, I know! However, when you realize that there is something more true and fulfilling awaiting you outside of them, the fear goes away, or at least lessens. Let’s all take a chance and let the mold be broken and see what happens.
Could It Be That The Divine Has A Better Plan For You?
The next phase of evolution is knocking at your door as the longing you feel in your Heart. Please open the door and ‘welcome it out.’ You may not even know what you long for yet, other than knowing that it’d better be better than what you are experiencing now.
This phase is going to be very different than what we’ve all been used to: We are becoming Conscious! It’s getting harder to remain unconscious to being victims of our circumstances. We are waking up to our inherent creative powers that have been laying dormant for a bit of time. As we are becoming more conscious of our lives (including how unconscious we’ve been!), there will be a natural curiosity about what else is possible.
When you don’t resist or judge the discontent you feel, it turns into curiosity. However, as long as you are not conscious about it, questioning your life isn’t really an option. It is similar to a fish that doesn’t question that it is swimming in water. ‘It’s just how it is’, period.
Something is changing. Can you feel it? Do you feel like a fish out of water? This pull towards a better life? A questioning of your current circumstances? After a long stretch of blindly accepting a limited, fear-filled and unfulfilled life, do you want more out of it now?
Those are all the signs of the next evolutionary impulse knocking at your door. If you answered yes to any of these questions, you are becoming conscious of the water. Its color is changing – getting darker – and you are finally able to notice that we are all in deep water and need to get to the surface.
The Muddy Dark Waters
I’ve been working through my share of the muddy dark water for many years and feel lighter and clearer as a result of it. I too have been playing around with creating a better future and had to realize that my current life was a result of my past conditioning – the muddy dark water I was innocently born into.
Along the way I kept feeling stuck in certain beliefs that wouldn’t budge. I felt frustrated, discouraged and wanted to give up: ‘It’s never going to change,’ ‘I’m not doing it right,’ ‘Why can’t I just …,’ etc. Luckily, I kept going in spite of the thickness of the mud and want to encourage you to keep going too. We need to be consistent and persistent with these sticky beliefs. They are found at the bottom of the ocean and cover the doorway that will get you out.
Have you ever heard these phrases before: ‘You have to feel it to heal it’ or ‘The only way out is through?’
Do I need to say more? Keep going.
Attraction – Affirmation – Frequencies
When I’ve read and practiced what the Law of Attraction gurus preach, it makes total sense that changing your beliefs and personal frequency will attract/vibrate a different experience into your life in order to match each other. But it was never that easy. As a Self Love Mentor, I know that the Self Love Frequency ‘vibes out’ so many of the old limited beliefs and structures and how that deeply changes your personal frequency. It’s deeply felt in your whole Being.
Mental repetitive affirmations won’t cut it, no matter how good they sound or how often you use them. They need to be more than words and thoughts in order to penetrate the muddy waters. They need to be felt at the core of your whole body and Being in order to change your muddy frequency. This takes time! There’s really no quick fix to change a personal frequency. First you need to become conscious of the dark water you are stuck in. Then this same consciousness needs to be activated to be able to penetrate it with its light and presence.
Learning To Look Through The Veil
We all still have plenty of limited muddy beliefs, emotions and frequencies that show up in our current life situations. They show up as all the things in your life that you are unhappy about and want to change. The good news is that they are not personal. They are part of the veil we collectively have accepted and are looking to, yet need to look through.
Looking to: You get stuck in this veil when you believe it, argue with it, resist it and agree with it. You do this by making yourself/others wrong, by judging, criticizing, doubting yourself and believing it will never change.
Please add your own flavor to that list. When you write them down, you can see what it is that’s still unconsciously blocking your frequency to change. You become conscious of the muddy dark water.
Do you notice how unloving and unkind all these beliefs and feelings are. Can you feel the harshness and hardness in them? Do you sense how their contracted density prevents the change you are hoping for? As long as your focus is on these frequencies, its like having a thick fog around you and that’s all you can see. You’ve got your face right down in the mud and nothing changes. It may even cover the longing in your Heart that is trying to get your attention to turn towards it.
There IS A Way Out
The longing in your Heart IS your way out when you listen to it. The longing needs to be activated to help you penetrate the veil and see through it! Self Love helps dissolve all the painful, limited harsh feelings, so you CAN open the door. Being reminded of this resource called Self Love and applying it is your way out.
There IS a way out, I promise you, but the door is inside of you and not in the density of these beliefs and feelings. Your Love for yourSelf dissolves the density and allows you to look through the muddy waters instead of fighting and resisting it.
Self Love naturally softens and opens the density and lets in a little light to help you see what is outside this veil – outside of these beliefs – outside of these limited, painful feelings. Self Love shows you other options.
This density is very close to home and clearly prevents you from seeing through and beyond it into the Field where anything and everything is possible, just like the Law of Attraction talks about it.
I wrote a poem called There is a Field of Infinite Possibilities and that’s where we are heading. It’s inside, outside and all around you and the magic starts when your frequency is liberated from the density of the muddy waters.
That’s where persistence comes in. You simply have to keep moving through the mud with Self Love as your machete and the longing in your Heart as your guide, and as sure as day follows night, one day you’ll find yourself in this Field of Infinite Possibilities where the longing in your Heart blossoms into the life you came here to live.
So what do you think? Does it make sense that your discontent is not a problem but maybe grace in disguise? If you need support in finding your way back ‘inside’ so you know what to follow into this New Paradigm we are entering into, go check out my work as a Self Love Mystic & Mentor at Divine Feminine Flow. You can also sign up for a free 30 min. Discovery Session with me to learn how true Self Love can turn your whole life around.