Ever Heard Of The New Paradigm?
My client was still struggling with the belief “I am not enough,” even after years and years of deep inner work and a very strong spiritual practice. Her awakened Self knows this is not true and when she rests in her Heart and Being, the whole concept of ‘not being enough’ sounds coo-coo.
When she rests in her Being-ness, that old belief doesn’t touch her, but if she looks outside of herself for a short moment, immediately she gets pulled into this suggestive energy of not being enough – and never will be for that matter.
It’s fascinating to watch how so many of us who are really quite awake to our True Nature are still affected by old personal conditionings as well as those from the world at large.
You may recognize this in yourself too. It’s an energy that hovers over and around you and colors every aspect of your life. It’s difficult to get away from, no matter the amount of work you do. What may be a missing realization is that you haven’t seen or felt what has changed energetically in the world and how this realization helps you know how you change with it. You’ll shift the direction and Flow with what is happening and not doubt it or even go against this Flow.
Crawling Out From Under The Old Paradigm Energy
This energy is part of the old paradigm where limitation, struggle, effort and feeling separate is the name of the game. The world as we know it is made of the old paradigm! It’s what we unconsciously live and breathe and move in all day long. It’s what we’ve been feeding our energy into for eons. This is why it’s not all that easy to escape it, except when you can make it all the way into your True Self where none of this exists. In here the ‘rules’ are different and it can be quite daunting to cross over on your own. It’s up to you and me to crawl out from under this energy and stop feeding it, no matter how convincing it feels. As I like to declare so often: we need each others help to get out and stay out.
I know that I am not resting in my True Self 24/7, although I’m more in it than not. It’s the times when I am not, that I really need to pay attention and sometimes still reach out for help. There are many sticky beliefs floating around in the ethers of the old paradigm, which we have been so used to engage with, that it’s become our unquestioned default mode. This does not mean it’s always going to be like that, however it does mean we need to be on alert when we get pulled in and not be afraid to ask for help.
Btw, asking for help is part of the New Paradigm, whereas the old made us believe we had to do it all on our own and that is was weak to need help. Baloney!
The Missing Piece How You Change With The New Paradigm
I have found an important missing piece to help you avoid going back into the old. Most of us have not been officially informed about an energetic shift that has taken place in Consciousness.
It’s as if you haven’t heard the news about the new governor in town who changed all the rules, but didn’t announce it to the public. Many of us notice that things are different but because we don’t have it clearly on paper, we are not really sure.
Back to my client: As a Hakomi Practitioner, we often use little probes for the client to notice the ripple effects when they hear those specific words as it relates to an issue they are dealing with. I invited her into mindfulness so she could notice any ripples inside when I offered her this probe: ‘Everything is different now! It’s all about Being and not about doing anymore.’
Pause … waiting for the ripple effect … Big sigh and tears of relief. Recognition of what she already knew, but hadn’t had confirmed yet.
A probe like that is never meant to convince you of anything. It’s meant to see what happens inside and what ‘comes up to meet this probe.’ In my clients case it was obvious something could let go now.
The confirmation came from within her through the relief she felt. She just needed to hear it from someone else. It resonated deeply in her core, which is why she felt the relief. For someone who is not attuned to this new Energy, they may have had a totally different experience from that probe, which simply shows their next unfolding step in their life.
In my client’s case it hit the jack pot. Before she left, she wrote down the probe as a reminder until she won’t need it any longer from the outside.
Are You A ‘New Paradigm’ie?’
I started sensing this ‘new governing’ many years ago, before the term New Paradigm (NP) was used much. I was afraid to speak about it because it wasn’t really something I could prove or justify, other than an inner Knowing.
Please allow me to speak about it now in the way that it keeps unfolding inside and thankfully is being confirmed over and over by other NP’ies like me.
We have moved into a different state of consciousness which is simply the next natural stage in evolution as the Divine Spark unfolds here on earth. When you look around you, things do not look all that different, except a little bit here and there. But inside! That’s where it’s all happening. There seems to be a wave of awareness where we suddenly are able to notice our reactions and beliefs instead of just being swept away by them. We are beginning to have a new relationship with our habits, patterns, surroundings and longings. We may not know what to do about them yet, but just hang in there. That’s the next step.
I do admit that there are still plenty of people who are either not aware yet or are simply not paying attention to it. They may not even be consciously aware that deep inside they believe they are not enough or other limitations like that.
But you? How about you? Have you noticed that you can’t really relate to those people who are still stuck in the rat race, who believe it’s all about survival, making money, success, pretense, inauthenticity and ‘the world out there’ and are kind of boring to you? Ever feeling bored in the company of those who are still caught in these old familiar patterns?
Please consider that this may be because your consciousness is slowly moving out of that realm and you are becoming a NP’ie? You may feel in a state of limbo between not knowing what to do now, and trying to fit back into a mold you have outgrown.
If you feel any inkling of relief from reading this article so far, I’d say you are experiencing the NP and are slowly following your evolution out of the old paradigm.
I Love to guide people cross over from the old to the New Paradigm, help them untangle the knots stuck in the old, and relieve the fear and doubt of the newness that doesn’t fit their old conditioning. I Love seeing their faces light up, their bodies relax and inspiration arise when they are being acknowledged in what they already know, but didn’t have anything to base it on.
The Rules Have Changed
The hardest part when you first start stepping into this new Consciousness is that the rules have completely changed. As a matter of fact there are no rules!!!!! What??? How do we live then?
That’s where your Heart’s Longing comes in very handy. Your Heart already Knows, because It is the One that has guided you out of the old paradigm and placed you in a ‘new land’ where you don’t know the language, can’t quite relate to the people yet, and feel awkward without your old maps, laws and familiar ways of functioning.
Welcome to the New Paradigm!
Soon I’ll share more about what its’ like to ‘live’ here and how you can best adjust to this new atmosphere and finally relax into it.
You can learn more about my work as a Self Love Mystic & Mentor at Divine Feminine Flow. Learn more about how to enter this New Paradigm in my book Imagine Being Kind To YourSelf. You may also contact me for a free 30 min. Discovery Session to learn how true Self Love can turn your whole life around. There’s plenty of help and support for you.