I recently conducted some smaller interviews with Women like you and me, who want to contribute to the world, but haven’t quite figured out how yet. As I was sifting through all the answers and information, there were some obvious similarities that got my attention. Many of these Women feel isolated, alone, stuck, empty inside and in need of something to get them motivated to make a difference. With a little probing deeper into the questions it became obvious that most of us need a community of like Hearted Women to lean on.
If you can spare 5 minutes, please partake in this survey (anonymously) for my research. Thank you in advance!
Ladies, it turns out that we need each other to lean on, to trust, feel encouraged by, supported, inspired, confirmed and held.
Alone, Stuck & Isolated?
I sincerely want to reach out to all the Women who feel alone, stuck and isolated, and in need of something you may not even know what is! Yes, some of the Women didn’t even know what they wanted, but knew something was missing. At the same time they/we are all in touch with something bigger inside, without Knowing how to bring it to life.
I know these Feelings all too well and it can feel pretty hopeless and devastating. I’ve been through it mySelf more than once and have come to realize long ago that there is no way around this mess we are in, unless we start gathering, supporting each other and work for a greater Vision. We were never supposed to figure all this out on our own, but because of our individual and collective conditioning, we’ve isolated ourselves from the essential support we all yearn for: Each other!
Dear Women, I need you and you need me. We all have something to share with the world and together we become whole. You have the Wisdom, the Vision and Skills that YOU need to bring forth your part of the healing and transformation needed on this planet. And all you need now is your Tribe of Women around you to give you the courage, inspiration and motivation to do it.
I Got The ‘Download’ To Start This Movement
About 5 years ago when I ‘got the download’ during a morning run, I went home and wrote it all down while it was fresh in my mind and Heart. I kept hearing:
Women need to gather together!
Women need to gather together!
Women need to gather together!
This download started a movement called Women Standing For Love and filled me with more joy and inspiration than I had felt for a long time.
I saw what was possible. I Felt what was needed. I was consumed with this Energy and effortlessly created a webpage, a Facebook group, an ebook and meetings in town.
I was on Fire. I Felt amazing. I had found my Purpose.
I Totally Trusted – eh… Felt Totally Abandoned By God
To make a long story short, the Movement took off, only to slowly ‘land’ after a number of months and my trust in the Divine plummeted. I had totally Trusted the Energy of the download and now felt totally abandoned. Yikes!
Even though it was not a conscious decision, from then on I decided to stay low key, not pay too much attention to these downloads anymore and just stay small for the rest of my life. Why bother, when God just dropped the ball, right!
I was angry. I was disappointed. Truthfully, I felt devastated because what first felt like I was on my Path and fulfilling my Purpose, suddenly turned into hopelessness and self doubt. What was I going to do now? After that download, everything else seemed kind of blah.
I was back in the soup of trying to figure out what I was here for and how I could be of service to the Divine. That was all I really wanted – Being in service to the Divine. But…service to the Divine!?! What’s the point when my service was not wanted?
Unwanted – Not Good Enough
I have learned a few things since that experience and have to admit that those old sticky core wounds and core beliefs still colored my experiences. I couldn’t see that I was in a learning and expansion phase at that time and took it all very personally. It made me feel as if God didn’t want me and I wasn’t good enough to serve and be part of the Grand Unfolding. That’s pretty personal, isn’t it!
Unstoppable!
Things have changed a bit and now I’m on a 2nd wind – kind of unstoppable actually – to bring the Movement Women Standing For Love back to life and ready for take off.
So yes, I went flat for awhile and had to swim through this ‘flat soup’ to find all the places where I was still believing that I did something wrong and was not good enough to Serve the Divine. I know this sounds ridiculous and I even knew it back then, but just knowing it is not enough to change these deep seated core beliefs. My call for help was heard by the Divine (I guess She had not abandoned me after all!) and I went through a powerful program that has cleared a lot of the Way for me.
The pilot Light inside had never gone out, so all it needed was a new spark to turn the Fire back on. This did happen and I do Feel on Fire again – this time with more sparks to keep it going
What Is Holding You Back From Living Your Truth?
The interviews showed me that so many Women are held back by similar reasons. You may recognize yourSelf in many of them:
- Fear of speaking up, speaking your Truth, speaking in groups
- Fear of what others think of you, be seen as Selfish, too sure of yourSelf, too bold
- You don’t really know what you want and it’s all just too much
- Overwhelm, stuck, empty inside, doubting yourSelf
- “Who am I to think I can make a difference!”
- Putting everyone’s needs before your own, to the point of not even knowing what you want
- Your days feel long and meaningless
- What are you even doing on this planet
- Too afraid to do what you know you need to do
- Ignore your gut feelings, saying yes when you mean no, and no when you mean yes
- Compromising in order to fit in
- Longing for deep meaningful connection, yet not finding it
- Heavy, surrounded by a fog, tired, suicidal, despair, hopeless
- Don’t feel like getting up in the morning, purposeless
Can you relate? This is more common than you may realize and right now my purpose is to bring awareness to what we all experience in our isolation, thinking “is it just me?”
No! It is NOT just you! It is ALL of us who have not yet stepped into the alive energy of Inspiration that wants to be in service to the Divine in this world. It kind of feels like a disease we have taken on. The cure is to connect back to your own Heart AND with likeHearted Women. Together we feed on each other’s Inspiration and Unfolding. It is powerful Medicine to sit with your Sisters and realize how similar we are. Same fears, same concerns, same stuckness, same doubts, same overwhelm, same hopelessness and also same Vision, same Wisdom, same Inspiration, same Longing, same Hopes, same Dreams.
Women Need To Gather Together!
As my download said, the answer is:
Women need to gather together!
Women need to gather together!
Women need to gather together!
Another poignant part of the download is that Women need to stand for Love in themSelves first. Obviously as a Self Love Mentor I Feel I am made for this Calling to show Women the ‘How to’ of standing for Love in themSelves first. I am in the process of creating a group program to help you or any Women who need support in that area.
If you are interested, please be part of the survey of what YOU need in order to Stand For Love, so I can tailor make this program for you and others like you. I would Love to hear back from you what YOU need to step out of overwhelm, stuckness and isolation into Self Love, Community, Confidence and Inspiration.
Please take a few minutes to fill out this form and send it back to me to help me create a program that many Women like you will benefit from.
My Vision within Women Standing For Love is Women Empowerment and Embodiment. I envision you expressing yourSelf in the world as an Authentic, Confident, open-Hearted Women offering your Wisdom and Gifts to the world. No matter how small, no matter how big, we all have our unique piece of the puzzle (I like to say ‘peace’ of the puzzle), that is essential for the big ‘MasterPeace.
You don’t need to be perfect by a long shot to share your Wisdom. None of us are perfect and I believe that it’s our exposed imperfections, undefended and Loved, is what helps others let go of their fears that they are not good enough to step into the world in a new and empowered way.
How Did I Do It?
After my dip when this Movement didn’t take flight, I had to ask mySelf something important:
“Pernilla, if you don’t step back into this Flow of your Calling, how will that affect the world?” “Who will miss out?”
My answer is: “If I don’t put all my Energy behind this Movement, how many Women will miss the opportunity to receive my support in stepping into their Calling?” How is the whole planet going to miss out of the healing and transformation that my Vision showed me? How many Women like you won’t bring out their Gifts because I held back?”
I Know that I am responsible for my part and grateful that I broke through the fear.
How about you? Who is missing out if you don’t step into your Calling? What will not transform because you held yourSelf back? What Vision wants to take birth through and as you, if you only have the right support?
I can’t wait to hear your answers to my survey questionnaire
Thank you for Being and doing your part in helping transform the world into one of Love, Care and Oneness. Thank you for helping me do my part!
Imagine Having A Community Of Like Hearted Women To Lean On
Whether you’ve worked with a coach before or are exploring counseling for the first time, it’s important to find someone you resonate with. Pernilla Lillarose is a Self Love Mystic & Mentor at Divine Feminine Flow. She offers a free 30 min. Discovery Session so you can get to know her and learn if her Self Love Mentoring is right for you. Her intention is to help you experience more Love, Peace and Joy in your life and experience how true Self Love has a global impact in the world.
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