Be Magnetized to your Self first…

Being a Me Magnet 

Being A Magnet

I was recently asked to be a speaker on ‘How to be a Man Magnet’ summit, hosted by Christine Campbell, and share the importance of Loving yourSelf first. Yes, Being a Magnet to yourSelf first.

Well, since Self Love is what I am about, I was delighted for this opportunity. However, because my email list was not quite large enough to be accepted as a speaker, I offered her my ebook: “Why Did This Happen to Me?” as a free gift for their audience.

That way, the message goes out to many 1000’s of people just with a simple click. This powerful little book sheds light on the old patterns we get stuck in as women, and that attract or keep us in relationships that don’t serve us anymore.

We are evolving out of those patterns now, so it’s great to have some helpful pointers on our way out, which is what this little book is about. Feel free to share this link with anyone who may enjoy these pointers.

What Does It Mean Being A Magnet To Your Beautiful Self First?

Well, of course it means that you have to learn to Love YourSelf first so you move out into the world feeling happy, confident and fulfilled from the inside out. Not a small task, I agree, however what is the alternative? Walking out into the world feeling empty, unhappy and needy for someone else to fill up the gap inside?

As harsh as this may sound, unfortunately most of us learned to go looking for happiness outside and in that outward movement, we left our beautiful Self behind feeling empty, unhappy and needy for someone else to fill up the gap!

Let’s make a U-ey and start getting to know yourself – your True Self first. Find out what You like, what You need, what is important to You, what matters to You and learn how to honor that about yourself. It really feels like you are making a U-ey and may feel a little awkward at first.

What do you mean: What matters to Me? What I like? What makes Me happy? Are you kidding me? I have learned to ignore those needs and tend to everyone else first, including that man I’m trying to magnetize into my life.

Finding Fulfillment Inside Through Loving Yourself – All Of Yourself

I learned that too when I was little, either by osmosis from the rest of the world, or maybe just because I was born into a female body with that job description attached. Who know why and how it happened? All I know now, is that trying to feel fulfilled by someone from the outside, is a lost cause and a never ending job this person has to fulfill. No, it’s much easier, more fun and empowering to fill my Self Full from the inside out and walk around in the world not needing someone to do it for me. Of course that doesn’t mean that I can’t or won’t enjoy the Love that is offered in the world. It just meant I am perfectly fine without it, can enjoy it when it is offered and don’t feel empty or crushed if it goes away. Even if I prefer it stay in my life, because of course it is fun to enjoy life with friends, partners and family and I’m not saying we are all supposed to walk life on our own.

However, when you feel Fulfilled from the inside out and let that ooze out of you when you go about in your life, don’t you think it’s going to be easier to attract a life partner? Someone who matches your energy and who wants to play with you at that level, instead of trying to fill the hole inside of you where you left yourself?

If we talk about being a magnet to find your life partner, make sure you are walking out Full of your Beautiful Self and then see how the world reflects that back to you. And if there is a phase in your life where it serves you better to Be without a partner, it may just be for you to take the time to become your own best partner first, where you feel just as Fulfilled and enjoy your life in your own company.

‘How to be a Man Magnet’ Summit

Learning to listen to yourself, honor what you hear and finally trust it, is an obvious first step we all need to take before we venture out into relationship-land. Once we learn how to do that, there are still many new skills we need to learn about how to meet someone that matches us, and then growing, deepening and evolving together.

Our inner fantasy about how it’s supposed to be, isn’t always enough 🙂

If you feel this resonates your own evolution, here is what Christine offers on this summit:

• Wouldn’t it be empowering to absolutely LOVE being single, have zero fear of ‘never meeting the one’ and truly enjoy your fun, free, independent life?

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• Are you ready to stop sabotaging your love success, uncover where you missed the mark, and learn exactly what the best men desire without you losing or compromising yourself?

I would like to invite you to this online interview series “How to be a Man Magnet” hosted by women’s empowerment coach, Christine Campbell. Christine will be joined by over 26 world recognized experts in love, dating, relationships, flirting, self-love, self care and confidence who will discuss the powerful changes you can make in your life that will help you become the empowered single woman that men find irresistible.

This 14-day event will include powerful interviews with fellow thought leaders, experts, NY Times bestselling authors and doctors sharing their wisdom and teachings on topics such as dating for the modern woman, building confidence, overcoming the fears that are keeping you single, what men want (explained by men) masculine vs. feminine energy, the art of receiving, co-dependency, the do’s and don’t of dating, flirting, sex and so much more! This interview series is the equivalent of a two week dating bootcamp yet it is your gift for FREE!

For more information, please go here​

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