Don’t Change YourSelf – Be YourSelf

You Don’t Need To Change Yourself

How much time we’ve spend on trying to change ourselves, not realizing that the one we want to change is not who we are – doesn’t even exist.
Yet, so much of our time is tied up in resisting the personality we have created in order to be loved, liked and fit in. It is a lot of work. Becoming yourself is a different journey, because we’ve moved so far away from our natural state that we hardly remember what its like to just be yourself.

You Do Need To BE YourSelf

And underneath it all, here I am – here you are – here is our essence of our Being – already Being everything we want to Be. It’s kind of silly, isn’t it.
But it is also not silly when we realize that we have all bought into this dream, often experienced as a nightmare, that has covered the vision of our eyes and Heart, that it has not been that easy to shed it. I do have a lot of compassion for what we’ve collectively agreed to, and which we now need each other’s help to disagree to.
It’s all a collective dream, so the more of us agree to not play the game anymore, the sooner and easier we can collectively play something else.

Lately I have been encountering the personality who loyally stands at the side of my bed every morning waiting for me, inviting me to put on it’s cloak and walk around in the world as someone I am not. And every morning – until recently – I have agreed to play that role. It was so automatic and unquestioned that ‘I am a somebody who …..’ and here I invite you to fill in your own identity to help you realize that tomorrow morning you can choose if you want to Be that again.

In my case, I am seeing more clearly than ever before, that those underlying sensations and feelings and suggestions – that I knew were there, but somehow hadn’t seen all the way through yet – could only color and limit my life expression when I agree to ‘put them on.’
It is changing from putting them on to being put off by them. Such grace.

Consciousness Is Choice

You know the feeling when something that was previously unconscious – even though you knew it was there –  suddenly becomes conscious? And when it happens in a way that you now have the power and authority to say no to it if you don’t want it and yes if you do?
Those are the moments of great change. Those are the times when we can make the leap and jump out of the old unconscious patterns and into our Heart where our true Identity lives.

I am in the middle of shedding such a thick layer of my false identity and I can’t help feeling elated, happy and ecstatic. When the old identity knocks on my door (and trust me, it does that a lot) I feel such a happy energy inside, because I can just say No! or I can just choose to change what I want to focus on instead.

When I go through such deep skin shedding, I experience so much Love and Joy that was imprisoned inside the skin, so if you see me bouncing around Santa Cruz, you know why.
I want this for you too. I want this for the whole world. I want us all to be free and happy and feeling Loved. I know it took me many years to be able to see the whole enchilada, like I do now. I bow to the ALL Formula which has helped me unhook from the skin, little by little, so that now I can slip out of it with a smile on my face.

Let me know if you want to join me. Today, 10/15/14 at 3PM PST I will be sharing more about the ‘how’ on Unveiled Radio.
I hope you join me on the show – and more so, I hope you join me in this freedom.
Replays are always available after each show on that same link, or here.

Feel free to browse my website Divine Feminine Flow to see what kind of support you may need to become yourSelf. If you need support to change any old patters – and believe me, we all do – then please contact me for a free 30 min Discovery Session where we’ll explore what kind of support you might need and if I am the right mentor to receive it from. You can also start with my free ebook 5 Steps To Dive Into The Divine Feminine Flow and do a little practice on your own first.