Easy and Effortless
Dear Friend,
I would like to introduce you to my two new Friends: Easy and Effortless.
I would love them to become your friends too.
They have been on the periphery of my life for quite a while, but I was so used to hanging out with Hard and Effort, that I barely noticed them until recently.
I would love them to become your friends too.
They have been on the periphery of my life for quite a while, but I was so used to hanging out with Hard and Effort, that I barely noticed them until recently.
They didn’t try to push themselves into my life or make an effort to be seen and heard. Yet somewhere underneath my relationship with Hard and Effort I felt their Presence more and more. It just felt like there was a sense of ease and effortlessness patiently waiting and making me aware that at anytime that I wanted to make them my Friends, they were there.
It was very tempting to befriend them, but I had been in this other relationship for so long (kind of co-dependent) that even though I started hanging out with my new Friends, I was still attached to Hard and Effort and had a hard time saying no, when they showed up at my door.
It was very tempting to befriend them, but I had been in this other relationship for so long (kind of co-dependent) that even though I started hanging out with my new Friends, I was still attached to Hard and Effort and had a hard time saying no, when they showed up at my door.
Nevertheless I started paying more attention to that underlying feeling and have slowly started spending more time with my new Friends. They are really nice!
Losing Interest
As my relationship with Easy and Effortless is getting stronger, Hard and Effort are beginning to realize that I have lost interest in them.
I still do have to put in some effort 🙂 into choosing Easy and Effortless.
I still have to get used to living with such wonderful Friends.
And it is still unfamiliar and even a little scary after so many years in this other relationship.
This relationship with my new Friends is penetrating all areas of my life and if you feel so moved, I would love to introduce them to you.
This relationship with my new Friends is penetrating all areas of my life and if you feel so moved, I would love to introduce them to you.
ALL Love,
Pernilla
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