Go ahead and Be Selfish!
Dear Friend,
What could be more important than tending to your True Self?
If you have lived your whole life being selfish, tending to your separate sense of self, there is something quite beautiful in store for you. It is a matter of shifting from selfish to Selfish.
To me that is what it means to truly Stand For Love. Love is who we are. Your Self is Love, so why not Be Selfish – Be Loving?
Maybe it is easier said than done, but don’t let that stop you.
What does Standing For Love mean to you?
Is it something you want to devote your life to?
On Friday I started my new radio show on PAGE Media Project and had a wonderful chat with producer Marielle Smith. We spoke exactly about what it means to Stand For Love in your Life, and it is no small task… neither to speak about… nor to live. But what are the options?
I invite you to listen to the replay of the show and hope it will inspire you.
I am realizing that the more I spread this message, the more obvious it becomes that there is no way around gathering together and start working together if we want to make a difference in the world. I’m not talking about making a dent, or doing something that will take another 100 years to become visible in the world. This time we can all work together for the same cause, while supporting and inspiring each other.
International Women’s Day
It was International Women’s Day on Thursday March 8th, and it reminded us that we have come a long way since it started over 100 years ago in 1909, but… we have a ways to go. Do you want to wait another 100 years before we see some substantial changes in the world?
Me neither.
That is why we need to Be Selfish and stop being selfish.
When you are Being Selfish, you are Being Love. You are Being Authentic and standing in your True Authority. You are Being You, confident and clear and able to say No to what is not true to You – what is not true to Love. You are being guided by your divine Self, who knows what is good for the whole and how to bring it about.
Being selfish is mostly about personal success, love and survival, and although this is not excluded from Being Selfish, on their own these qualities keep us separated and won’t make the world a better place.
Being Selfish is when we all can start making a deep and lasting impact in the world. We need more Women like that.
Yes, we need Men too, very much so. And I am looking forward to a movement called Men Standing For Love. Then we can all join hands for the same cause.
However, because we as Women have been giving away our True Authority to the patriarchy, we first need to take it back, and we need each others support to do that.
The world needs us all now to stand up – rise up – Take a Stand For Love and turn the tide. When we do this together – as One cause – in support of each other, without competition or comparing, we can do it.
Please join us this coming Wednesday in Santa Cruz
You are warmly invited to our next Women Standing For Love Gathering on Wednesday March 13 at Pacific Cultural Center.
I will first talk about the importance of Self Love (and fyi this does not exclude self Love) and how that affects all parts of your life and the whole world at large.
Then we’ll share our Visions and areas in life where we feel moved to make a difference and finally connect with those of same Vision. Once we find those who resonate with us, we can get into smaller circles, inspire each other and together learn how to get creative and take the next step…
Living outside the Bay Area?
No problem. Please stay connected through facebook or my website. We are going to need all of us to make this happen. That includes you.
If you like to stay connected you can watch the audio/video from this Gathering that I will post, so you can let yourself be inspired. Why not get together with other Women and start your own circle, while staying connected with all of us. Or how about starting out by getting some Women Friends together and watch the video from the first Gathering.
You are not alone anymore. We all have each other. All we need now is to gather, connect, share and make it happen.
I look forward to seeing you on Wednesday or connecting with you soon.
ALL Love,
Pernilla
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