The Big One
Dear Friend,
Finding what your Heart is committed to at the deepest levels of your soul, is where your commitment has true power. Once you feel this deep energetic resonance inside your heart, mind and body as a felt sense, and embrace it, it can feel like a ‘non-negotiable.’ You will always know where to go (inside) and what to do (listen). The challenge for most of us is learning how to trust this energy and learn how this is in essence what we came here for. Unfortunately most of us get lost in lesser energies and forget about the ‘big’ one or never get the opportunity to connect with it.
One important step in the direction of the ‘big’ one, is to listen one layer deeper each time you feel you want something. I know how easy it is to let your life be dominated by likes and don’t likes, wants and don’t wants without taking a deeper ‘feel.’
What is it really that you want if you have that thing you want?
What experience is it that you really want?
If you had this car, girl, body, $$, job, guy etc, what would that really do for you?
For instance, if you had the ‘guy’, would you feel loved? lovable? safe? accepted?
If you had the ‘body’, would you feel more wanted? worthy? feel better about yourself?
How Do I Give That To Myself?
Whatever the feeling is that you really want, that is where you’ll start connecting more with the ‘biggie’. Once you connect with this ‘biggie’ you’ll realize that getting the ‘whatever it is that you want’ is only a temporary solution for it. It is a prop to find out what you really want and once you know, you can start connecting with true fulfillment in your life. But do enjoy ‘the girl, the car, the $$’s’ while they are in your life. However, make sure you take the deeper longing seriously and then the next step is: How do I give this to myself?
And that is a good title for a next blog series. We’ll see what happens after these 31 days.
ALL Love,
Pernilla
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