The Power Of Saying No

I am really enjoying my new radio show called Unveiled and feel so inspired to share all the insights and clarity that I keep receiving on the subject. Funny how changing a name can open up a door for all this new inspiration. Tomorrow, Wednesday I’ll be talking some more about the power of saying No to the things we are done with. There is such a tendency to resist it instead of walking away from it, and unfortunately – as you probably know by now – resisting is feeding the very thing you want to get rid of.

The Difference Between Resisting And Simply Saying No!

It is like day and night. Making the transition between resisting and saying No is a total game changer and will catapult you out of the veil (of illusion and suffering) into a higher state of consciousness where you can start living from your Heart. But it is so important to really cut the cord and turn away from what you don’t want anymore, and stop resisting it or trying to change, improve or get rid of it. Whatever you feel done with is simply an energy that has served its purpose in life and helped you grow to this next natural level of evolution, where you don’t need those props or dramas anymore.

Pacifiers, Diapers And Kindergarten

You can compare it to a pacifier. A pacifier serves a wonderful purpose after leaving the stage of breast feeding behind. And then, after that purpose is fulfilled, you don’t need the pacifier anymore. There is no need to go back and resist the breast feeding or the pacifier, is there? Or trying to get rid of it or make it wrong. No, you just leave it behind (with a little help from your parents.)
Or after you leave your diapers behind and learn potty training, you don’t make the diapers wrong, resist them or judge yourself for having used them. No, you just leave them behind and move to a ‘higher state’ where you use the potty.
How about Kindergarten? Do you need to resist it when you go to a higher level of school called first grade? No, of course not. You just leave Kindergarten behind for those who will benefit from it, and move on to the next state of your evolution.

It sounds so simple, doesn’t it? So why is there such a strong tendency to resist things about ourselves that we are done with and have outgrown?
Could it be that we don’t quite know how to Trust our next level yet – our Heart – our next stage of evolution – so instead we cling to what we know and what feels familiar, even though it doesn’t serve us anymore?
What is keeping you stuck in resisting something you have outgrown instead of simply leaving it behind and moving on?

Are You A Change Maker?

If you are reading this post you may have some of those tendencies. We need Change Makers, because change is happening and many of us need to fill those roles. However, remember what Einstein said: “No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.”

I find this very significant to realize in our actions. If you are trying to change something in the world through resistance, I wish you good luck. Any resistance will lock the problem in place and prevent change from happening. It is bringing the same energy or consciousness to an existing problem.

When you really FEEL DONE with something you stop resisting it. But you have to FEEL it in your body. When you do, you STOP resisting it. You just say No and turn away and create something that you say Yes to instead. It may seem like a simple thing when you read it here, but when you actually put it into practice, you become a Real Change Maker – internally or externally.

The Power Of Saying No

Please join me tomorrow Wednesday at 3PM on Unveiled Radio where we’ll explore this more in depth and shine the light of awareness and clarity on this subject so we can become True Change Makers in everything we are and do. True Change comes from our open Heart that guides us into Right action and Right Speech because it is not being blocked by our resistance to old patterns and paradigms.
Just like an incoming wave that has run its course and dissolves back into the big Ocean of Oneness, so will the old paradigm dissolve back into this Ocean without anybody needing to resist it. Our lack of energy through resistance gives it permission to complete its cycle so a new one can replace it.
Let’s focus on our Heart’s deepest longings and start creating what our open Heart guides us to do.

How is that beautiful Heart of yours doing? Are you in touch with its Longing? Or are you mostly listening to what your mind tells you? If you would like to learn what it’s like to listen to your Heart and Follow it, you can learn more about my work as a Self Love Mystic and Mentor at DivineFeminine Flow and if you feel ready just go here to sign up for a free 30 min discovery session.