How often do we ask ourselves that question?

The question itself speaks to the fact that we believe we are a victim of our circumstances, where something happens to us. As long as we are not yet aware that we are the creators of our own experience and that they happen as us and through us, not to us, this question would make sense.

A better question would be: “How did this happen to me?” and then start inquiring into how we make choices that are not always in our own best interest.

I wrote this little eBook for you and invite you to download it for free by just putting your name and email in the box. You’ll get instant access to it.
Even though it is focusing on relationships and break ups, it really relates to all of life, because life is all about relationship.

Please let me know how you like it.

I want to take this one step further and look at it more globally. My new ‘little’ project Women Standing For Love is not separate from the title of the eBook.

The world as we know it is an expression of what we have allowed to happen over time, and we are in a place now, where we have the opportunity to make different and conscious choices. Have you noticed how more conscious you are today than even a few years ago, and sometimes you wonder: “What was I thinking?”
Well I have certainly done that more than once, and luckily I am able to inquire into my intentions in the present moment (most of the time) so I don’t have to wonder afterwards.
We are able to see more clearly now and as Women we don’t have to buy into the old structures anymore that have made us feel like victims and that we needed to accommodate others at the expense of our own Truth.
As far as I can see we just need to get together and realize that we are not alone, we are not victims and we can create a world based on Love, Justice, Harmony and so much more.
Let’s do away with these outworn structures and start listening into our own Wisdom that now guides us into a new healthier, more powerful way of Being, individually and globally.
Ladies, the time of sitting on the side lines feeling powerless and wondering why this world is happening to us, is over. Let ‘us’ make it happen to ‘it’ and make it happen based on the Core Values residing in our Hearts. And let’s support each other individually and globally in making this happen.
Please join me this week on 2 radio shows (see side bar) about Women Standing For Love and introduce yourself on facebook page Women Standing For Love. This will be the starting place to meet each other and then we’ll see what can evolve.
Of course I hope to see you on February 12th at the first meeting of Women Standing For Love.
We are all waiting for each other. We are all waiting for you. And you are warmly welcome!