Womenpreneurs Stepping Out of the Old Paradigm

Womenpreneurs Stepping Out of the Old Paradigm

Dear Friend,

I know it is not easy to step out of old paradigms when you have felt stuck in them for lifetimes. It feels like taking off a comfortable coat that helped you ‘fit in’, but it is worn and dirty and time to be discarded. I still find old pieces of that garment stuck on my ‘derriere’ at times, and wonder why I didn’t see them before. There are particular strands of this garment that blend in so well with my surroundings that it is very easy to miss. And when I see it, I wonder if this is true or not, because everyone else has one of those hanging on their behind.

I have become aware of a very particular flavor of that old garment and decided to pull it off all together a few months ago. It still makes me feel odd and naked compared with others, even those that usually are of my kin. Now I have to stay true to my oddness and nakedness whether my kind keep that part of their garment intact.
I am used to the oddness now, because my commitment to stepping into the new paradigm of my Heart is stronger than anything. Even stronger than: “But Pernilla, what if you are wrong, and everybody is right?” “Look they are all still wearing that piece on their behind, so what makes you think that you shouldn’t?”
These 2 thoughts used to get me every time and made me doubt myself. So for me to acknowledge that my commitment to my Heart is so much bigger than those 2 little tempters is really something worth blogging about 🙂

What Is That Flavor?

The flavor I am talking about is how we as womenpreneurs are still trying to fit into a system that is not natural to us and makes us feel frozen, frustrated and failures. We need more womenpreneurs stepping out of the old paradigm. This is exactly what I went through a few months ago, and it was pretty scary to step out of the crowd that was even my own tribe and stand on my own. But I had no choice, thank God. The pain of going against my own grain was unbearable, so I finally surrendered and said: “I give up. You show me!” And now I live in a wonderful state of not knowing, completely open to learning what the Right way is for me without being influenced by anybody that does not resonate with me. I still get plenty of support and love from my tribe, and it is great that I am learning to stand on my own two feet, learning my way and being able to share that with others who may disagree.

I think this will be a great subject for my radioshow tomorrow Tuesday 11/27 at 11AM PST on Evolutionary Women Radio. Will you join me in this discussion? Please to to the chatroom or call in at 334 649 7204. I would love to have you share your experience in this subject.

ALL Love,
Pernilla