We can call Her by many names. The Woman within, the authentic Woman, the awakening Woman and today I call Her The Wild Woman Within. Do you Know Her? She’s the one roaring at the gate offering you the courage to let Her out and awaken to who you truly are – awaken the wild Woman within.
There is a wildness to Her that has been tamed because She was never really seen, welcomed or acknowledged in the past and She is done playing that game. She has had it.
She is NOT small, yet Her wildness is not offensive or dangerous. She is playful, wise and She transforms everything around Her just by Her authentic Presence. When She roars, She emits a higher frequency and affects the whole world.
How about you? Have you finally had enough? Are you done playing small, insignificant, ignored, not good enough, bad, wrong, unwanted, too much, too sensitive, too this and too that?
Of course you are! I Know that because the Wild Woman who’s been roaring at the gate of my Heart is the same One roaring at yours. And when I let mine roar, your Wild Woman recognizes that roar and wants to sound Hers too.
The Roar Of Awakening
I just finished a wonderful session with a client. In this session I could hear Her roar loud and clear. The problem on her end was that she wasn’t fully hearing it herSelf because nobody in her life circumstances had acknowledged it.
You know the quote ‘It takes one to know one,’ right? Well, that’s what happened today. It happens often, because I Know that roar in me, which is why I Know it in you too. I Know it so intimately that it’s easy for me to recognize it in you, and consequently help you recognize it in yourSelf. And just between you and I, when you find your roar and rest in your authentic wild Woman, you’ll recognize it in others. It’s the domino effect.
When you find your roar, you emit a higher frequency and affect the whole world.
Because Of Lack Of Attention, The Wild Woman Has Been Put On Mute
The Wild Woman has been inside of you all along, but because nobody has paid attention to Her, including yourSelf, she’s been put on mute. Luckily, it only takes one who already Knows Her inside, to help someone else Know Her too and then unmute Her.
If you are surrounding yourSelf by people who don’t recognize your roar, it will be hard for you to recognize it yourSelf in the beginning. That’s when you feel tempted to isolate yourSelf and keep hiding the roar, believing you are unwanted. In that state it’s hard to reach out for help and connection – why would you, when nobody is paying attention anyway?
Don’t Isolate YourSelf If You Want To Awaken The Wild Woman Within
I tried that too, isolating myself, believing I should be able to do it all on my own. Well, let me tell you… that didn’t get me very far. In my experience with my clients as well as in my own life, it is essential to surround yourSelf with people who are on the path of awakening. That is very different than surrounding yourSelf with those who have not connected yet to their own roar.
When you connect with ‘your people’, you create a safe place to be recognized and try out your roar. Since you are all on the same journey, you know you need each other’s support to become fully authentic again. The Know the power of being fully seen by others and given permission to express yourSelf authentically. That’s where you get your juice – directly from the wild Woman within.
And not only that, when you roar together, you emit a higher frequency that affects the whole world.
Let YourSelf Be Seen, Heard And Acknowledged
Why not connect with somebody who already Knows, and then spend time together.
- Let yourSelf be seen and Known by someone on the outside, to help you see and Know your Inner Wild Woman yourSelf
- Let Her roar be heard by someone who already Knows it and can help you fully embrace it
- Let the outside acknowledgment be the nourishment you’ve been waiting for. Then take your own sweet time to digest it into every starving cell
We’ve been hiding behind too many layers of limiting beliefs because we depended more on the outside world than on our inner Knowing.
By muting your own Knowing and Wisdom, the wild, creative, authentic, juicy, awake Woman that you truly are, had to start raising Her Voice to get your attention. That’s why you are feeling all this pushing, prodding and pressure inside. It’s uncomfortable, isn’t it? It’s your Wild Woman wanting you to Listen to your Self, to your deeper values and to the contribution She came here to offer.
As long as you may still benefit from having someone on the outside acknowledge your authenticity, why not receive it?
What You Feel And Know, Deeply Matters!
As a Hakomi Practitioner, I use simple little probes to either bring up some unconscious beliefs, or to bring nourishment and clarity to the parts that are ready to take it in.
Well, back to the session. The statement ‘What You Feel And Know, Deeply Matters’ went right in – actually right to her core. It felt like the most nourishing meal of a lifetime.
In Hakomi we call this the ‘missing experience.’ Oftentimes you don’t even know that this is what you have been wanting all along, because it got buried so deep down. Why wouldn’t you bury it, when nobody had ever taken the time to reflect that back to you?
However, when a missing experience is offered to you, something inside can finally relax and let go. The missing experience is like an emotional or mental nourishment you’ve been hungering for, but which was never offered on the menu of life. A hunger you didn’t even know was there until it suddenly gets filled and can relax.
Would You Like To Have A Taste Too?
Close your eyes and imagine someone you trust saying these words to you: “What You Feel And Know, Deeply Matters.”
Take a moment and let yourSelf Feel the impact of that statement.
You’ll either reject it, accept it, or anything in between.
What if that is really true? What if it’s only because the world you grew up in didn’t have that option on the menu, and not because it is not true?
Something to consider? Something to add to the menu?
If this resonates with you, I’d encourage you to surround yourSelf with those who are able to offer that nourishment to you. You Know you need it, so why not receive it? Don’t hesitate to reach out if you authentically long to be supported.
Imagine spending time with someone or more than one, who can resonate it back to you that you deeply matter?
When you roar together, you emit a higher frequency and affect the whole world.
The Silent Roar
And my client? Well, once she Listened to her roar, it calmed down. Now She – the Wild Woman didn’t have to exert the pressure anymore. She was heard. She was heard by the one that needed to hear Her. The roar calmed down and turned into a peaceful, yummy Feeling of Presence, Love and Oneness. Delicious!
We just sat and enjoyed our Silent roars together, realizing how the energy in the Silence of the roar is what changes everything – even without speaking a word.
We simply enjoyed roaring together, while emitting a higher frequency affecting the whole world.
How is your roar? Do you have anyone in your life who can recognize it? If not, please reach out. I offer a free 30 min. discovery session to learn if I can support you in getting in touch with your Wild Woman and roar. Together, we uncover what might be getting in the way of your roar and how we can help liberate the authentic, beautiful, wild awakening Woman that you are. You can also start with my free ebook 5 Steps To Dive Into The Divine Feminine Flow and see if this all resonates with you and if Self Love is something to support you in getting to Know yourSelf again.