Prepare For The Birth Of YOU

Prepare for the Birth of YOU!

Dear Friend,

The experience of what you want is waiting for you. This experience wants to take birth through YOU. Otherwise you wouldn’t be able to feel it.

• Where? In the longing of your Heart.

• How? By listening with an open kind ear and take an interest in what truly matters to you

If you have spent some time inquiring into this sweet Heart of yours, what did you find? And what do you find over and over again? Different flavors of the same longing? Or different longings with similar flavors?

Now it is time to prepare for the birth of YOU. This longing that wants to take birth can only happen by you preparing the environment and conditions for it. You do that by starting to live as if this is for real. Take it seriously and imagine who you’d need to become for this to be so? Your words, your thoughts and your actions need to get into alignment with this longing. (Tip: How else could it ever happen?)
If for instance you want to experience Love in your life and you keep judging and criticizing yourself and others, you are out of alignment with your longing and instead you are giving birth to its opposite. Getting into alignment with your longing is where the ‘work’ is.

Clear out the stuff and stories

We all need to clear out quite a bit of ‘stuff and stories’ that steer us away from our longing. Whenever you engage in a thought, word or action that is not aligned with your longing you simply stop. Stop. Take a breath. Reevaluate what you really want. Remember that once it has become conscious, the choice is yours to be in alignment or out of alignment with your Heart. When it is unconscious you don’t really have a choice. But once you do know (and I know that you do now – at least to a certain extend), you are blessed to be able to choose.

In the beginning it takes vigilance to keep checking in and recognize where you are putting your commitment. There are plenty of layers and reasons that have stopped you from committing to your Heart up until now, so hang in there. It will get easier. A lot easier. It is a matter of keeping part of your awareness on your self, your thoughts, words, actions and motivations and keep making them conscious. You reevaluate and choose what you really want. It sounds so simple, doesn’t it when I put it this way. I know it is not always that simple, because most of our decisions are based on our commitment to stay safe and to avoid repeating past painful circumstances.

Saying “No”

Learning to say “No” to what we don’t want is a big lesson we all need to learn. Learning to say “No” to our thoughts and beliefs is the first step to freedom from this tyranny of the mind. You have full permission to say “No” to anything that is not in resonance with your Heart. Start with small things, start in situations where you feel safe. This has its own process, as does everything in life, so be kind and gentle with yourself as you learn to commit to something that really matters to you and clear out the debris of fear and other constricting emotions to pave the way for the True You.

ALL Love,
Pernilla

Previous posts:

The Power of True Commitment
How to Commit And Succeed
Committing From a Felt Sense
7 Steps to Successful Commitment
What Do You Really Want?
Committing To Your Heart
The Choice Is Yours
Commit To What You Want
Longing IS Love
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